Yes, frequently the frustration heats your blood up to the boiling point. You can physically feel it: adrenaline rushes through your body, your air intakes come faster, your temples are throbbing. You feel as if you are about to choke. You want to scream, you want to destroy the obstacle, the cause! You want to hit the roof!
But you cannot! You are a Financial Executive – the CFO or the Controller of this company. You have to control yourself. There is no way you can throw your boss out of your office. You can fire your inadequate employee on the spot, but that would mean spending months on search and training of someone new. And the VP, who drives you insane with his inability to improve sales and at the very least to show up on time for the meeting, is your CEO's son.
So000, you have to control yourself in the face of these frustrating circumstances. You have to present your most composed self on the outside and act constructively like a seasoned professional you are. At the right moment you mention some urgent marketing matter that only your boss can resolve and he obediently runs out while being convinced that it was his idea in the first place. You calmly ask your employee to get off the Internet and start her on the project with recommendations for the best solutions. You explain again to the VP of Sales why it is important to concentrate on distribution of more profitable, but not necessarily most expensive products. And next time, if you want to meet with him at 2 pm, you ask him to come at 1:30 pm.
Well, that's all good for the business and your authority position, but it does not stop the chocking feeling, and the throbbing, and the anger. As the matter of fact, the symptoms are getting worth, because you bottled that Molotov cocktail inside and it threatens to explode.
There is a need for release. In my post on Tuesday, the 31st, I will share with you my few tricks.